7 Valuable Lessons I Discovered After My Breakup

7 Valuable Lessons I Discovered After My Breakup

  It was just over a year ago that my ex ended our relationship; one of the most difficult moments of my life.  It was also one of the most important. A few days ago I did some reflecting on that moment, my life with her, and my growth over the past year. It was...
Why You Should Get Her To Say “Yes” To Sex

Why You Should Get Her To Say “Yes” To Sex

  As a man looking to grow, I’ve sought out life lessons learned by other men. Sometimes that comes through blogs, podcasts, videos, or 1-on-1 conversations. Recently, I stumbled on a blog post entitled “I Promise, It’s Not Lame To Ask A Woman for Permission”,...
Why You Need To Take Full Ownership Of Your Life

Why You Need To Take Full Ownership Of Your Life

  Taking ownership and responsibility for my life wasn’t something I cared to do. Like I had mentioned in previous posts, I was emotionally checked out for most of my life. So, it was much easier to put my personal responsibilities on other people. My health My...
Who Are You Spending Your Time With?

Who Are You Spending Your Time With?

  A couple of weeks ago, I drove down to San Diego to meet with 20 men who were looking to build their online businesses. The guys traveled from all over the country. We even had a guy fly in from Belgium. The event was called Influence Academy Live, which is...
Being A Single Man At My Sister’s Wedding

Being A Single Man At My Sister’s Wedding

  This past weekend, my little sister got married. I cried a few times during the ceremony; the first time she walked down the aisle and a second time when she recited her vows. Seeing my baby sister as a beautiful, young woman and committing herself to an...
Why You Should Live Like You’re Dying

Why You Should Live Like You’re Dying

  This past weekend, my Meetup group had a discussion on impermanence. We talked about the importance of living like your dying; giving zero fucks of what anyone thinks when it comes to living with purpose and passion. We should be making the most of your time on...
Pornography, Sex Education, And NoFap

Pornography, Sex Education, And NoFap

  In my last post, I shared the story when my ex-girlfriend found my porn stash. If you haven’t read or watched it, you can find it here. After sharing about my personal experience with pornography and how it affected my relationship, I wanted to look at...
The Time My Girlfriend Found My Porn

The Time My Girlfriend Found My Porn

  I Remember That Day… I got the phone call. She was understandably upset. A ton of thoughts were racing through my head: Fuck, I can’t believe she found it. I should have deleted my Browser History. Why the hell was she using my computer!? What I...
The Lack of Platonic Touch in Men’s Lives

The Lack of Platonic Touch in Men’s Lives

  The Lack of Platonic Touch in Men’s Lives A friend of mine recently sent me an article titled “The Lack of Gentle Platonic Touch in Men’s Lives is a Killer” published in 2013 by The Good Men Project. When I saw the title I immediately thought,...